Hope 'must never be used' to minimise grief, survivor sayspublished at 15:41 BST
Stober continues her speech by highlighting the importance of support and connection during a victim or survivor's recovery.
She says this is present in the phone calls people continue to receive, the messages they might get from colleagues, and the neighbours who listen.
"These acts may seem small but they make a profound difference to us," she tells the room.
Stober then turns to talking about hope, which she says "must never be used" to minimise grief, rush healing or suggest loss can be left behind.
She says hope is found in everyday choices - including to "reject hatred", "challenge division" and "stand beside those who are hurting".
Concluding her remarks, Stober offers her sympathies to all affected by terrorism, adding: "Your pain is real, your loss matters, your voices matter."













